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Written by abdul baqi   
Monday, 05 December 2005
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MILESTONE 8: ATTRACT BY LOVE AND NOBLE CHARACTER

We are consisting of physical body, and meta-physical spirit. The physical body gets satisfaction by physical means like money, food, etc. The spirit is harder to satisfy, it needs Love and noble character. Experience proves that love and character can bring things that money can not. When you are well equipped with these qualities, then your kids must become your obedient.

A Bedouin came to the mosque of the Prophet and started to urinate inside. This surely is an awful act. So, the people around were all ready to beat that stupid Bedouin. The Prophet prevented them, and let the Bedouin to finish. Then, he took him aside and advised him. This Bedouin got impressed, and at a moment of joy maid supplication to Allah: "O Allah! have mercy on me and Muhammad, and do not have mercy on anyone else!'

Dear parents, love, discussion and friendly talk often brings much more positive outcome than beating, punishing and shouting.  

 


 
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Do not become weak (against your enemy), nor be sad, and you will be superior (in victory) if you are indeed (true) believers. [Quran aal-Imran (3):139]
 

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